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Circle of Courage

Agency-wide, Cunningham uses the Circle of Courage resiliency model, articulated by Brendtro, Brokenleg and Van Bockern in Reclaiming Youth at Risk: Our hope for the future to guide our youths' psycho-social development.

The Circle is in keeping with the Cunningham philosophy of "Kids' Needs First" and our agency tradition of family, and involves four interrelated dimensions: Belonging (attachment), Mastery (achievement), Independence (autonomy), and Generosity (altruism).



The Circle of Courage has no sharp edges. It serves as a nurturing framework for guiding a child away from isolation and despair into a community of love and caring. In the words of poet Edwin Markham:

He drew a circle to shut me out.
Heretic, rebel a thing to flout.
But love and I had the wit to win.
We drew a circle that took him in.


The following excerpts from Reclaiming Youth at Risk provide futher explanation of the four elements of the Circle of Courage.

Belonging (attachment): Right now, I belong here.

"For many troubled children, belonging will only be found in relationships with adults who recognize, in the words of American psychiatrist Dr. Karl Menninger, that "living with and loving other human beings who return that love is the most strengthening and salubrious emotional experience in the world."

Mastery (achievement): I may not be perfect at everything I try, but I will always try to get better.

"When the child's need to be competent is satisfied, motivation for further achievement is enhanced; deprived of opportunities for success, young people express their frustration through troubled behavior or by retreating in helplessness and inferiority."


Independence (autonomy): Earning independence by building trust.

"As Maier puts it, 'Children's ability to separate and manage on their own is anchored in the degree of security of their attachments.'"



Generosity (altruism): Giving to others makes you feel good.

"Elkind suggests that helping others improves self-esteem, and increased self esteem allows young people to 'de-center' and contribute to others. Hans Selye concludes that altruism is the ultimate resource for coping with life's conflicts, for reaching out to help another, one breaks free from preoccupation with the self."


The above passages and illustrations are excerpted from Reclaiming Youth at Risk: Our hope for the future by Brendtro, Brokenleg and Van Bockern. More information about the Circle of Courage can be found at www.reclaiming.com.

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